I was on a big crossroads of my life. A part me was pulling forward towards all the big dreams I have. But another part held me back. There were times when all I could do was just sit silently for an hour, lost, confused, frustrated, while this inner conflict was happening inside me.
I am a life coach but even as a coach, I have my own blind spot. That’s why it’s a blind spot because no matter how deep I dig, it seemed I couldn’t see what’s going on. I needed help. As I reached out, Tess was there throwing a life vest at me. She pulled me up. She came without judgement. She was there as a a mirror of what’s going on inside me.
I was able to make peace with the shattered pieces of me. I had some areas that needed help before my wife passed away. And during the moment of her passing, these unresolved issues took to overdrive and my frustration turned these matters into emotional shells.
Tess showed me how to get these shells. We didn’t stop there. We continued to the place where I had to decide what I was going to do next. Did I want to stay where I was and feeling sorry for myself